Body Image
Social media is one of the most prominent things in today's society. A lot of teens and young adults, including me, open Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, or Facebook as soon as they wake up. It's a place to catch up on the news and be connected with your friends 24/7. Social media allows people to post pictures of their lives for their followers and friends to see what they are up to. While this is great, it can also have some damaging effects on teens’ and young adults’ mental health and body image. Personally, I have seen these effects in my own life and in others on Instagram and Twitter. I have felt the need on multiple occasions to change the way I looked and lose weight to fit within society’s "standards." I thought that if I looked the way that people do on social media, then others would like me. This was not the case but instead caused me to fall into a deep depressive state since I didn’t match how everyone else looked. I stopped eating and would chart my weight to make sure I was losing weight. It wasn’t until I almost fainted in class one day to realize what I was doing just to fit in. While social media can be a good thing at times, it can also be a major factor in how people view themselves and the world around them. It’s important to note and remember that not everything you see is real as many people heavily edit their photos to fit within society’s standards. I asked people on social media and a few students at my college if they could reflect on their experiences using social media and how it has affected their mental health and body image. I used these statements to create and shape my poems below to show just how impactful social media can be on someone's life.
Body Positivity
Skinnier, have a larger bum and thighs
because that’s what social media deems ‘beautiful’
Why can’t I look like that?
I have stretch marks, lumps, bruises, scars, moles, and acne
I became anxious about how others view me
I wanted to go on a diet and starve myself
I worried all the time about people leaving me because of my body
I woke up early and upped my workout routine
I ate carrots and raw lettuce
I felt a lot of guilt for eating what I did
I started to develop bulimic tendencies
And it has been hard to escape
I started following more body-positive accounts
Now I see a surprising amount of body positivity posts
It has helped with my style and confidence
Preach body neutrality and positivity
The more you hear it
the more you’ll start to believe it
Media can have such a large impact
on the way, you view yourself and the world around you
so why not try to make that impact a positive one?
- A found langauge poem

Inner Thoughts

- A blackout poem
Daunting
Sit, stare, and scroll
Is the only thing I do when I open my eyes
As social media is everywhere I look
I see beautiful women with long eyelashes, big butts, and boobs
All the women are skinny and look happy
All things of which I’m not
I've tried to starve myself
I’ve tried to workout
But nothing seems to work
I developed signs of depression and anxiety
All because of the way look
And because of the way I didn’t look
I’ve tracked my weight
I've even made myself throw up
Just so I could seem beautiful to myself and others
I never thought I was perfect
Which made me fall down a hole
I almost wasn’t able to escape
I know I’m not alone
As I see others edit photos as a response
And I see tweets of people being anxious
When they post a photo of themselves
It’s a sad society that we live in
That people have a need to fit the “standards”
But in all honesty, you don't
you should just be you
So eat that donut
Dress the way you want
And stop editing your photos
Cause you are beautiful just the way you are
- A reflection poem