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Body Image

Social media is one of the most prominent things in today's society. A lot of teens and young adults, including me, open Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, or Facebook as soon as they wake up. It's a place to catch up on the news and be connected with your friends 24/7. Social media allows people to post pictures of their lives for their followers and friends to see what they are up to. While this is great, it can also have some damaging effects on teens’ and young adults’ mental health and body image. Personally, I have seen these effects in my own life and in others on Instagram and Twitter. I have felt the need on multiple occasions to change the way I looked and lose weight to fit within society’s "standards." I thought that if I looked the way that people do on social media, then others would like me. This was not the case but instead caused me to fall into a deep depressive state since I didn’t match how everyone else looked. I stopped eating and would chart my weight to make sure I was losing weight. It wasn’t until I almost fainted in class one day to realize what I was doing just to fit in. While social media can be a good thing at times, it can also be a major factor in how people view themselves and the world around them. It’s important to note and remember that not everything you see is real as many people heavily edit their photos to fit within society’s standards. I asked people on social media and a few students at my college if they could reflect on their experiences using social media and how it has affected their mental health and body image. I used these statements to create and shape my poems below to show just how impactful social media can be on someone's life. 

Body Positivity

Skinnier, have a larger bum and thighs

because that’s what social media deems ‘beautiful’

Why can’t I look like that?

 

I have stretch marks, lumps, bruises, scars, moles, and acne

I became anxious about how others view me

I wanted to go on a diet and starve myself

 

I worried all the time about people leaving me because of my body

I woke up early and upped my workout routine 

I ate carrots and raw lettuce

 

I felt a lot of guilt for eating what I did

I started to develop bulimic tendencies

And it has been hard to escape

 

I started following more body-positive accounts

Now I see a surprising amount of body positivity posts

It has helped with my style and confidence

 

Preach body neutrality and positivity

The more you hear it

the more you’ll start to believe it

 

Media can have such a large impact

on the way, you view yourself and the world around you

so why not try to make that impact a positive one?

- A found langauge poem

Inner Thoughts

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- A blackout poem

Daunting

Sit, stare, and scroll 

Is the only thing I do when I open my eyes

As social media is everywhere I look

I see beautiful women with long eyelashes, big butts, and boobs

All the women are skinny and look happy 

All things of which I’m not 

I've tried to starve myself

I’ve tried to workout

But nothing seems to work

I developed signs of depression and anxiety 

All because of the way look

And because of the way I didn’t look

I’ve tracked my weight

I've even made myself throw up 

Just so I could seem beautiful to myself and others

I never thought I was perfect 

Which made me fall down a hole 

I almost wasn’t able to escape 

I know I’m not alone 

As I see others edit photos as a response 

And I see tweets of people being anxious 

When they post a photo of themselves 

It’s a sad society that we live in

That people have a need to fit the “standards”

But in all honesty, you don't 

you should just be you

So eat that donut 

Dress the way you want 

And stop editing your photos 

Cause you are beautiful just the way you are 

- A reflection poem

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